To start at the beginning. I was born on 24/11-1971. I have an older sister, that is an accountant. -Had a pretty strickt upbringing, but i needed it.. i was all over the place. -My mum loves to tell stories about me hiding in the top shelf in the kitchen as a 3 year old, playing hide and seek..

I still have a big scar in my tounge, from getting caught on the spiked handle on the refridgerator when i was trying to get the candy i the cupboard above it...

In 1988 i joined Norwegian peoples aid. -A norwegian equal to the originally swiss Red cross. Got sertified as "certified first aid person" the same year, and continued to do courses, both advanced first aid and internal courses in the organisation. -Had several duties in the organisation, head of all the equitment,administrative duties, and so on. I eventually rose to becom the head of the "first aid department" -Also got my sertification as a voulenteer paramedic.

But eventually i got tired of constant differences with other members of the leading structure, who constantely did what they wanted to do, regardless what the board had to say, so i quit, and went into the Red cross system. and has been there ever since....

All this time i went to school, and had decided that i wanted to become a male nurse. -An anasthetic nurse. -giving narcosis before operations and so on. maybe get onto air ambulance or something.

That was until i saw liposuction on tv... lol i have no problem with operations, but seeing that long probe being yanked back and forth under the skin of a patient almost made me turn my head... -that does not happen often.. lol

So i fell down on my current education... two years in school, and two years apprenticeship.

Besides school, i´ve always had jobs.. i´ve been doing everything from emtying trash, waiting tables, bartending, and so on, but mostly i´ve been a DJ. I´ve played a lot of venues in the district, and i guess the "peak" came when i played for over 500 people at a national athletic venue and everyone of them was jumping screaming "i love rock ´n roll" lol... gave me chills...-still do... the croud screamed so loud, no one heard the music! lol

Well.. eventually, i met the woman i was to make my wife.. i was in apprentaship, and lived at home... parents can be so annoying! lol

I got my certificate of apprentaship, and finally moved out on my own.. -oh well my girlfriend was always there, so i guess i wasn´t actually on my own.. lol

(Father and son watching cartoons early in the morning ;) )

Beaming ahead a time, she one day told me i was going to become a father.. a day i´ll never forget. Living in a one bedroom appartment, we had to have more space. -So we moved to her hometown, and i quit my job. Her father was to buy a small cafe, with a pub on the second floor... so, since i had worked behind the bar, DJ-ing and so on, i was to manage the pub, my girlfriend the cafe, and her father was to do the finances only.

Yeah right. -Him beeing a devorcee had alot of time on his hands, so everything was ok... But when he got a girlfriend-guess who got all his share of the work? Yepp, me.. and when he then suddenly took an intrest, he told us that we were doing everything wrong... But the next day, he told us, that we had to do what we wanted to do... lol.. inconsistant?

If i sound bitter, I´m not. -It was an experience i wouldn´t have done without, i learned much about myself in that period. And i´m not bitter against the people involved either. -Whats done is done, and to the others involved, i must have seemed like total jerk sometimes as well LOL

But this is my site, so its my story ;)

Then 15/9-2001 my son was born. For the first time in many-many years i actually cried.

We staged the babtism, so that everyone got suprised, when the whole church was packed, and suddenly the organ started up, and my soon to be wife and her father came walking up the ile...

But i have to admit, that working that close to my wife, and her close connection to her father, took a toll on our marriage. So in a try to save the realtionship, i pulled out of the company, and tried to get a job again. -But living in a small "village" -of close to 800 people, it´s nooot easy. -So eventually we decided to go our seperate ways march 2004.

I moved back to my hometown, and got a job in the home nursing care over the summer. After that i´ve been working shifts in homes for the elderly and so on...

My son age 3

well, that was a bit about my past... -My future? Who knows... I have (under the advice of my lawyer) accepted to be a weekend dad... although it hurts... but for the greater good...

Besides that, i´m now working as a driver, driving almost every size truck to deliver goods to factories and stores in my local area...although i´m just a temp, i work my ass off... -hoping for steady employment.. time will tell eh?

I´m still hoping to learn something about computers.. -Maybe web-design? ;) i´m having a blast making these pages, so maybe its a future in it? ;) Time will tell i guess....

I´ll try to keep these pages updated more often than i have.. ;)